advice | The Smart Set https://www.thesmartset.com A magazine of arts & culture from Drexel University Thu, 18 Apr 2024 14:28:22 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 Don’t Sing, Scarf, or Spit https://www.thesmartset.com/dont-sing-scarf-or-spit/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=dont-sing-scarf-or-spit https://www.thesmartset.com/dont-sing-scarf-or-spit/#respond Thu, 18 Apr 2024 14:28:17 +0000 https://www.thesmartset.com/?p=64367 Culture, if we can still call it that, has taken a definite downward turn in the last couple of decades. Tee shirts with I HATE YOUR F—ING MASK (the F word spelled out) printed in large letters on the front. Texting at the dinner table. Parents using profanity to children. Being honked and tailgated while […]

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Trust Me on the Sunscreen https://www.thesmartset.com/trust-me-on-the-sunscreen/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=trust-me-on-the-sunscreen https://www.thesmartset.com/trust-me-on-the-sunscreen/#respond Thu, 13 Jun 2019 11:30:56 +0000 https://www.thesmartset.com/?p=42495 In high school, we swooned to boy bands and carried quarters so we could “arrive alive” after a teenage drinking binge. In middle school, we walked straight to airport gates to greet our grandparents as they tumbled off flights, rumpled in button-down shirts and pantyhose. And in elementary school, we read piles of books to […]

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The Art of the Book Review https://www.thesmartset.com/the-art-of-the-book-review/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-art-of-the-book-review https://www.thesmartset.com/the-art-of-the-book-review/#comments Thu, 14 Apr 2016 12:30:05 +0000 https://www.thesmartset.com/?p=10008 When I was writing my first book, my editor advised me to put everything I wanted the review-reading public to know in the first and last chapters, because those are the only chapters that most reviewers read. In the years since then, I have discovered that indeed most of the quotes pulled by reviewers from […]

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Old Rhymes, Bad Words, and Good News https://www.thesmartset.com/old-rhymes-bad-words-and-good-news/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=old-rhymes-bad-words-and-good-news https://www.thesmartset.com/old-rhymes-bad-words-and-good-news/#respond Thu, 14 Jan 2016 16:07:34 +0000 https://www.thesmartset.com/?p=9172 The origins of the limerick are vague But the style came after black plague. And in today’s modern age This boyfriend may wage Spats in rhyme, though his girlfriend may beg. (Stylisticienne, The Smart Set) Let’s take a critical eye to the profane and the obscene. (Los Angeles Review of Books, The Smart Set) What’s […]

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He Said She Said https://www.thesmartset.com/he-said-she-said/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=he-said-she-said https://www.thesmartset.com/he-said-she-said/#respond Fri, 04 Dec 2015 13:39:01 +0000 https://www.thesmartset.com/?p=8666 Aspiring writers must navigate the legions of advice from the legends who came before — not a simple task in a world that idolizes both Faulkner and Hemmingway. Read about teachers who advise their students against the use of the word “said,” and graduate programs that reject the use of anything but. (The Wall Street Journal, […]

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Everybody Wants More than Just One Thing https://www.thesmartset.com/everyone-wants-more-than-just-one-thing/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=everyone-wants-more-than-just-one-thing https://www.thesmartset.com/everyone-wants-more-than-just-one-thing/#respond Thu, 03 Sep 2015 15:22:42 +0000 https://www.thesmartset.com/?p=7025 It is standard advice to state that the main character or characters should want something. That it is wanting — desire — that motivates characters to act and action that creates the story, novel, perhaps even the persona in a persona poem. It’s not bad advice; genre fiction can get a lot of mileage from […]

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The End https://www.thesmartset.com/article06281101/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=article06281101 https://www.thesmartset.com/article06281101/#respond Tue, 28 Jun 2011 16:12:43 +0000 I recently finished college and a competitive, labor-intensive internship. I’m going to be starting a new job in a couple of weeks, but instead of feeling proud or relieved to have completed my studies, I feel nervous. Why does The End seem so ominous? — Patrick E.   Well, as the old adage goes, the […]

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Reading Habits https://www.thesmartset.com/article06201102/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=article06201102 https://www.thesmartset.com/article06201102/#respond Mon, 20 Jun 2011 16:12:43 +0000 Something weird keeps happening to me. I order one book online, then I get all these email updates — “Maybe you’ll like this book…”  These online marketing tactics generally work. I think, “Wow, I would like that book,” and so I order it, and I LOVE IT. So now I’m afraid that these marketing tools […]

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Poetic Therapy https://www.thesmartset.com/article06061101/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=article06061101 https://www.thesmartset.com/article06061101/#respond Mon, 06 Jun 2011 16:12:43 +0000 My daughter is in a coma. She’s non-responsive. Her brain damage is extensive. Her doctors aren’t hopeful. Since you have relevant experience in this area, what do you think I should do to help her? What can I do to help myself, to keep thinking positive? — J   Wow. From my experience, I think […]

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Wedded Bliss https://www.thesmartset.com/article05191101/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=article05191101 https://www.thesmartset.com/article05191101/#respond Thu, 19 May 2011 16:12:43 +0000 Is there a particular poem or collection of poetry you’d recommend for 2 bookish types, carefree in spirit but both simple and practical in their daily lives, who are getting married? I am also contributing to a Crate and Barrel gift card for them but I think marriage demands something a little more meaningful than […]

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